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		<title>*Now* the truth comes out</title>
		<link>http://givesgoodemail.com/2010/03/09/now-the-truth-comes-out/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 04:04:04 +0000</pubDate>
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I&#8217;ve wondered why the Trophy Fiancé® wants me to go to the gym, and until now I just assumed that it was over concern for my health and fitness, both of which could be better.
But now I *know* why she wants me to go.
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		<title>Too soon!</title>
		<link>http://givesgoodemail.com/2010/02/10/too-soon/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 19:05:39 +0000</pubDate>
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In other news:

Virgin Mobile is giving away free excuses for your sweetie to break up with you.
Comments on intellectual ability = racism?
Slightly used politician and shack-up sweetie for sale.

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		<title>A second chance?</title>
		<link>http://givesgoodemail.com/2010/01/14/a-second-chance/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 16:23:09 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Moral behavior]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[(Names in this post are changed to protect the guilty.)
I recently defriended &#8220;Louise&#8221; from my Facebook account. (The whys and wherefores aren&#8217;t that important.) I did it quietly, without fuss, and moved on with life.
Now she wants to be friends again:
&#8220;I am not sure why you defriended me&#8230;But you know as well as I do, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=givesgoodemail.com&blog=3680290&post=1024&subd=givesgoodemail&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Tit for tat</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 15:23:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is an ongoing trial in California to decide the constitutionality of California&#8217;s Proposition 8, which limits marriage to one man, one woman.
However this trial turn out, it will doubtless be appealed to the U.S. Supreme Court, which will decide whether one-man-one-woman marriage laws now in force in some states will be upheld or declared [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=givesgoodemail.com&blog=3680290&post=1011&subd=givesgoodemail&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>What do you smell like?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jan 2010 18:03:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love to wear perfume oil blends made by the Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab folks from California. They&#8217;re potent and go a lot further and are better for your skin than commercial colognes. You can buy either a 5ml bottle of something you like, or small sample vials (called &#8220;imps&#8221;) for a nominal fee if [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=givesgoodemail.com&blog=3680290&post=990&subd=givesgoodemail&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Addenda #1 to Rules of the (Relationship) Road</title>
		<link>http://givesgoodemail.com/2010/01/04/addendum-1-to-rules-of-the-relationship-road/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jan 2010 19:36:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is an addition to this blog&#8217;s very first post:
~~~~~~~~~~~~~
If you are not content and happy with your life before you start a relationship, you will not be content and happy after you start one.
Intelligence is sexy.
A successful relationship contains an endless cycle of wrongs committed, apologies offered, and forgiveness granted,  all leavened by [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=givesgoodemail.com&blog=3680290&post=934&subd=givesgoodemail&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Time to bleach my eyeballs</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 21:27:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Fox News (&#8220;fair and balanced&#8221;).
An article called How to Spot a Single Woman.
Contained in the &#8220;Men&#8217;s Health&#8221; department.
Gah.
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		<title>March of the (high school) falsettos</title>
		<link>http://givesgoodemail.com/2009/12/15/march-of-the-high-school-falsettos/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 18:50:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Peter Atlas, teacher and director of theatrical productions at Concord-Carlisle Regional High School, in Concord MA, decided to stage a production of &#8220;Falsettos&#8221;, a musical play that contains the following themes:
1. a man who abandons his family for his gay lover
2. lesbian neighbors
3. a &#8220;healthy dose of profanity and pornography&#8221; (per these wingnuts)
The godbag asshats [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=givesgoodemail.com&blog=3680290&post=872&subd=givesgoodemail&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>For the foot fetishist doormats among us</title>
		<link>http://givesgoodemail.com/2009/12/11/for-the-foot-fetishist-doormats-among-us/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Dec 2009 18:12:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A quote from one of Dan Savage&#8217;s Letters of the Day:
&#8230;I didn&#8217;t advise SFF to dump his girlfriend merely because she won&#8217;t allow him to touch her feet. Her refusal to indulge him in a sexual pleasure that requires so little from her—he&#8217;s not asking her to learn to tie complicated knots or lay in [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=givesgoodemail.com&blog=3680290&post=841&subd=givesgoodemail&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Compassion</title>
		<link>http://givesgoodemail.com/2009/09/30/compassion/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 01:30:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Miami&#8217;s Jackson Memorial Hospital did not allow the partner and children of a fatal aneurysm sufferer to visit the victim while she lay dying, despite the partner holding proper medical power of attorney.
Neither the Dade County medical examiner&#8217;s office (Dr. Bruce A. Hyma, Director, Chief Medical Examiner, 1 Bob Hope Road, Miami, FL 33136,  Phone: [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=givesgoodemail.com&blog=3680290&post=468&subd=givesgoodemail&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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